With all of the headlines lately regarding the opioid crisis, it is nice to get to see some good news. Working with patients who have problems with addiction is challenging, but there are rewards that come with seeing success stories. Such is the case with a young man who decided that he needed to get help and came many months ago to get started on a program to get free from addicting behaviors that were ruining his life.
The wide array of substances that people use to get away from reality is an insidious evil plaguing our country. While people are different and some do have predispositions toward addiction that other people do not have, there is still the choice that must be made on the part of the user to take a substance or medication against the advice of their physician and/or the law. Once that choice is made, for many it is a seemingly never-ending, downward spiral. For those with little or no support to help them when and if they want to seek recovery, the chances of making it be free from the chains of addiction are slim. Watching someone slowly deteriorate as this evil takes their life away from them, to hear their heart cry deep from within to be free from the dungeon encasing it while darkness swirls about them trying to keep them from hearing the truth, to see them reach out and then fall back discouraged, to look at those children who don’t have their parent(s) anymore because they are dead from an overdose is to feel some of their pain. It is more than enough to drive me to my knees in prayer.
For this young man, he was traveling down the road of his life when he came upon a detour that took him places he had never been and wondered if he was ever going to find his way back. For him, it was his mother who came with him the first time, and many times after that, as she was not going to sit idly by while her son’s life was taken away from their family. His wife had left him a while back, but his children still needed him as their father. His parents still needed him as their son. God still loved him just as He always did, if he could just see the light shine through. As time passed and changes occurred, the real person beneath the chains began to emerge more clearly. The medication used to help him slowly get away from the illegal substances was being withdrawn from him a little at a time until on this last visit, he was written his last few doses to finish his treatment with this medication. While this achievement, with God’s help, is encouraging, he faces many temptations ahead and must continue to be dependent upon God to help him daily.
The best reward for me was to get to see his father come with him on this most recent visit. As his father sat in front of him and told his son that he would have given his right arm to see him saved, tears streamed down both of their faces. It was a heavenly scene as this son seemed to realize more than he ever had before of his own earthly father’s love for him and to experience from him love, grace, acceptance, and forgiveness. I will never forget watching that unfold and I told him how blessed he was to be able to have that relationship because so many do not. They got up and were leaving to check out when I happened to come back down the hallway and right in front of everyone were embracing one another in the nursing area in a way that made me recall the story of the prodigal son being received by his father who had run to meet him. Despite all of the bad news, the Good News of the Gospel is still the answer for what ails many in our land.